My mother died last week. In going through some of her papers I found letters I’d written her that she’d saved, along with some cards I made. Among the letters, one, in particular stood out, written when I was 25, which was a long time ago.
While reading it, I was struck by how much of the content had not changed. It was a thank you note, but not for anything materialistic. Rather, I thanked her for the wonderful qualities, ones she, wittingly or not, passed onto me. These included, but definitely weren’t limited to, instilling in me the importance of a sense of humor, independence, sensitivity, and the certainty of her love for me.
(In looking at the Halloween card I made, I realize she also imparted an appreciation for mysteries.)
My mom was also my closest friend. The only time I recall that not being the case was when I was 13. That age explains it all. Otherwise, we laughed a lot, shared details of our lives once I moved away from home as a young adult and ever since. We spoke by phone almost daily – until about six weeks before she died. Talking on the phone was difficult for her, so the conversations practically ceased. I think that’s when the grieving process started for me.
I was with her when she died. I’m glad that card wasn’t the only time I expressed my appreciation for all she gave me. I’m saddened I can’t keep letting her know.
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Absolutely beautiful. You are so fortunate to have had such a loving relationship with your mom. ♥️
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Lovely, Robin. Thank you ❤️
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Oh, you touch my heart, Robin, when describing your relationship with your mother. I am so glad you had such a wonderful friendship and I am truly sorry for your loss. I said goodbye to my mother 2 -1/2 years ago and it is never easy. Allow yourself time to grieve. Even now, I talk to my mom on a regular basis. She is still a good listener. 🙂 Karen Storm
Dear Robin,
It touched me to read your Letter about you and your Mom’s close relationship and how much I miss her already. She was such a dear, wise, sensitive, kind human being. Lois and I and J spent a few hours last evening together and it was hard sitting at the table where we shared so much with each other. I can only imagine how you are feeling.
Much love,
Roberta Sherwood
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What a beautiful tribute to her. How blessed you both were to have each other.
Robin, I don’t expect to cry while reading your book reviews! But you have me crying over my tea this a.m. What a beautiful tribute to your mom. She is now your guardian angel. And you must have been the pride and joy of her life. Plus you gave her those amazing grandsons and sons in law. Moms never really leave you. You have her in every word you write, every breath you take. Moms that were blessed to know their grandchildren, as your sons did, continue the legacy of memories made and will always, always, share those memories with their families. God Bless you all. Mark and I send our love. p.s. those cards and letters……..line your drawers with them. It will be an amazing memory when the day comes that your drawers must be ‘cleaned out’. I did that and love it daily.